Most people try to change their habits, routines or relationships.

They read the books.

They set the goals

They try harder.

And yet the same patterns return.

Why?

Because identity drives behavior.

If you still see yourself as :

• The one who over-gives
• The one who stays small to keep peace
• The one who refines worth through achievement
• The one who survives instead of thrives.

Then no strategy will create lasting change how you see yourself.

When identity shifts:

• Boundaries strengthen
• Confidence stabilizes
• Choices align
• Relationships transform
• Success feels grounded instead of exhausting

You stop forcing change. You start embodying it.